He is the most wonderful person I have ever well "met". We chat everyday and I think about him all the time...I think I might be falling in love with him, there is just one problem.....he lives in aus and i live in the arg.......I have not told him this yet and he has not asked. Could this be for real? HELP!! By sweet June 4, 2007, 8:39 am
: i dont know how to help your problem of location,but i do believe it is possible to fall in love with someone youve never met By rosi June 11, 2007, 1:36 am
And yes you can fall in love without actually meeting the person. Whether it stays the same once you have met is a different thing. By alan June 11, 2007, 1:42 am
Yes, of course you can fall in love with someone you have never met in person. It has happened to me, and it has happened to MANY people i know personally. I have two friends in particular ....they communicated for over a year BEFORE meeting. They have now been happily married . Now of course its NOT always the case where things work out. As anyone who meets someone online, HONESTY is the key. Be honest, open, and upfront right from the get-go, so you will have nothing come back on you later and bite you in the arse. its certainly true that you will know for sure when you meet them in person and get to know them on a deeper level than online can possibly provide. That, and only that personal meeting, will tell you if they have been honest with you about EVERYTHING, as you will see the true colors By wave June 19, 2007, 6:00 am
Unless to put the wrong country in your profile i think he should know by now where you are from. As for falling in love anything can happen but always remember that it is easy to be someone different behind a computer and until you meet him always keep you mind clear. By Daran June 21, 2007, 2:33 am
Falling in love with someone you have never met is unwise. Before you let yourself go that far meet the person otherwise .I am not saying it would never work, I mean I have read of loads of cases of women writing to guys on death row who end up marrying them Personally I don't believe a relationship is truely tested until you don’t sleep in bed.
By kony June 21, 2007, 6:03 am
Yes you can fall in love on the net but i think you have to keep a reality check on those feelings until you have met.
I remember a guy that i used to chat to last year said that he had fallen in love with me and to me on the net and phone he seemed a nice enough guy BUT.......when we did finally meet it was dreadful. He was totally diff to his pic, very egotistical and domineering..."you can have anything on the menu but i will be ordering pizza for us'...we HAD to leave as soon as the meal was finished, no coffee or drink..like wtf is that all about?? Haven't heard a word from him since that first and last meeting...i think he got the hint when i just stopped talking to him lol
So yeah...keep it under wraps UNTIL you have met and spent some time together
