Most experts agree that the best way to start back on the road to a blissful marriage is to rekindle the romance that you had early on in your relationship. Maybe you would get your wife flowers just because. Perhaps you would leave your husband little notes to show your love.
After awhile, those little gestures start to seem less important. You just stop doing those things for your partner because you figure they know how much you love them. This is where most couples start to fall into an apathetic state of mind when it comes to their marriage.
Life as a married couple eventually becomes stale and routine with no passion anymore. You are still partners, but are no longer lovers like you once were.
The roots of marital disenchantment are usually exposed shortly after marriage, when reality intrudes on fantasy. This adjustment period reveals the other's imperfections.
Shortcomings, once viewed as minor and glossed over in the full bloom of love, suddenly take on ominous dimensions. Cute eccentricities grow into aggravating annoyances. Rudeness replaces romance.
Each spouse defends his or her own territory, and the one union reverts to two identities, as the fantasy of romantic oneness begins to fade. Requests become demands. Marital disharmony takes over and negative actions, left unchecked, can spell disaster for two well-intentioned former lovers.
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