Infatuation can even be thought of as love with only two dimensions. With love, that third dimension is reality. So, it is actually your ability to tell what is real in a relationship, versus what is imagined. You love being part of a couple, but is this the person you want to be in a couple with?
Look at the reality of who this person is, not who you wants to be. Meet under different circumstances. Become part of each other’s lives. If that is not happening, why not? Are you spending and enjoying time together? What happens when you are apart? Are you sure?
Trying to differentiate your love interest from your lust interest. The result is more control and confidence as you stride your way in love’s direction.
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