Genuine lust stems from sexual chemistry. It is the natural and inevitable result of physical attraction and physical compatibility - the two essential ingredients of sexual chemistry. Sexual chemistry is a powerful force. It can induce strong sexual desire towards people. And it does so without the need for props, toys, or games.
The lust that is born of physical compatibility is the only type of lust that goes with a loving relationship. A couple who combine physical chemistry with emotional and intellectual compatibility, and who act in objective and benevolent ways can create a profoundly contented and life-enhancing experience. That experience is commonly known as love.
Love and lust are not interchangeable, although they naturally coexist in a sexual love relationship. In many non-sexual relationships, love does perfectly well on its own without sexual desire.
But what about the contrary example? Can genuine lust exist in a sexual association that is not a loving relationship? Yes it can - although there are many people who would challenge that view.
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