Men are motivated and strong when they feel needed.
The man gradually become unenterprising and passived when he does not feel needed in relationship with the woman. In the other hand, when he feels she has trust in him, he can give her more.
Women are motivated and strong when they feel cherished. The woman gradually become forbidding responsible and nervous that she gave him too much, if she does not feel love. But when she feels he respected and loved her, she can give him more.
In the beginning of relationships with opposite sex a woman steal a quick glance at a man. With this glance she suggest to him that may be he is The Man who makes her happy. In this skilled way she initiates theirs relations. Her look gives him courage to comes up. It gives him strength to overcome his fear of new relationship. The man reveals his best nature when he had the chance to prove his potential. When a man is in love he is motivated to achieve the top of his possibilitys. When his heart is openly he feels so sure of himself and he is able to do some importants changes. When a man is in love he starts caring for his love partner like caring for himself. He lives through his love partner pleasure like his own. He stand all manner of difficulties just for her. He wants she will be happy, because her happiness makes him happy too. His higher goals gives him new energy. In his yоuthful years he was satisfied to serve just for himself. But when he is of mature years that does not satisfaction. It is difficult for him to continue to takes care of himself and his relations with someone, if he does not feel someone needs him. It is difficult for him to be motivated if he does not feel someone needs him. He has to feel that someone appreciates, and someone beliеves him. To be needless it will be the slowly end for him.
Most men almost do not realize how important is for a woman to feel support of someone who loves her. Women are happy when they believe that their needs will be satisfied. If a woman is depressed, upset, confused, exhausted, and powerless she needs to communicate. She needs to feel she is not alone. Men do not realize that, because they prefer to be alone when they are in depression. From regard for a woman when she is upset a man leaves her alone. Or if he stay he tries to solve her problems. He does not understand how important is for her to be understood. At those moments she needs first of all of someone who listen to her.
When The Woman shares her feelings she convince herself that she deserve love. She can be relaxed. To overcome their depression women share their feels and speak about their problems. In the meantime they find out the reason for their depression.
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