Love as a dynamic process. That means that there is a relationship that flexes, changes and grows as people mature, experience happens upon them, priorities and dreams are built and goals are met. Love brings out the best in people as individuals. The relationship between them becomes the way they define their lives. As jobs, careers, people are able to work as a team to be understanding and flexible so the relationship will flourish.
Dynamic process of love equals a sharing of emotion, trust, and growth of relationship. Growth is increasing ability of a couple to live symbiotically, enjoy each others company, trust each other with more secrets, depend on each other in more crises over the years, in raising children and taking care of aging relatives. It is about growing old together, and long-term investments.
You don't always have to say "I love you," although that is wonderful and necessary, too. Your love can also be expressed by:
Smiling at a person you love when he comes home.
Saying "I'm sorry" even when it is easier to keep quiet.
Hugging a person you love.
Complimenting a person you love.
Offering to help a person you love.
Picking up a small gift for someone you love.
Little things say "I love you."
(Unknown)
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