Finally, you have met him or her. You know what I mean, The One. All your life, or so it seems, you have been waiting for the person who made your heart pound, made the stars bright... You have a strange expression on your face, food suddenly seems like a mere inconvenience and sleep is just something you used to do. Your friends tease you about being in love. Of course, you are not stupid. You have been around, and you have spent time in meditation having explored your own needs in the world. You want a soul mate but this man is just so sexy that it is hard to imagine ...
So, things are going well and you are looking toward the next step. Going public. Everyone knows and invites you as a couple. People you know speculate about the future of your relationship. But the future means forever when it comes to commitment, so how do you know if this is really a good thing?
Are people whispering about how happy they are for you, or are they wondering if you should be committed yourself? And how about yourself? Do you feel comfortable with your newest love interest or do you just want to feel comfortable with someone? Is this the person that you want to spend your life with or are you just afraid to march into the future alone?
These very large questions deserve great considerations. The passions of new love are so entwined in our own emotional makeup, that it seems impossible to find objective considerations when proceeding along love is thorny paths.
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