Men and Woman speak different languages. They speak and even stop speaking for completely defferet reasons.
Men and Women have different needs for intimacy. Men get close but then they feel an overmastering need to pull back.
Men and Women give the kind of love they need and not what the opposite sex needs. Men first of all need a kind of love that is trusting, approval and appreciation. Women first of all need a kind of love that is caring, understanding and respectful.
Men and Women evaluate things differently. Women evaluate every gift of love and every other gift, irrespective of size.
Falling in love is always magical. It feels forever, as if love will last forever. We naively believe that we are insured that love will die and we always will living happily. But when the magic fades away and daily life gets the upper hand, it emerges that men continue to expect women to think and react like men and women expect men to feel and behave like women. Without a clear realizing of our differences, we would not take the time to understand and respect each other. We become insistent, dissatisfied, and intolerant. With our the best intentions love continues to die. The problems spring up. The hostility shows up. Communication breaks down. Mistrust increases. The magic of love is lost. We ask ourselves:
How does it happen ?
Why does it happen ?
Why does it happen to us ?
Why me ?
It is happens to almost everyone. Too little people are able to live in love relationship. And all the same it is happen.
Love is magic and it can continue, if we remember our differences.
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