One of the biggest mistakes that women are doing all the time is to pretend that they like everything about a certain guy. In order to get the dating to the level of a relationship women say nothing and just focus on the positive characteristics. The problem occurs once you have a relationship and you try to change every single thing that you hated about him. You show your true colors and start changing all the things you didn’t have the courage to tell him about. You might start slowly but after a while you will want to change his whole life.
The main idea is that perhaps he does not want all these adjustments. And instead of thanking you he might start to hate you like hell. At that point he has two choices. He will either run away from the relationship or he will try to get it back on you. That doesn’t mean that you have to accept him as he is and don’t complain.
What you should do is to start using the power you had over him at the beginning of the relationship in a wise way. Tell him in a light way how much it bothers you whenever he gets late to your dating, still if that won’t do any good than wait for him fifteen minutes. After that if he doesn’t show up then go and do something that you like very much.
The result will be much more pleasing than if you would have expected him in a bad mood. If you do not like the way he dresses up tell him in a gentle way, but do not make him feel bad or hurt his feelings. When he asks for your help than give it to him but do not start to makeover his wardrobe unless he invites you to. Be very careful and don’t say too much about the things you do not like in the beginning of the relationship. Your partner may get scared or confused because you may have greater expectations than he can fulfill. Probably he would assume it would go on like that for the rest of the relationship.
You have to make him desire your approval. For that you also have to prove him that it is worth trying to win you over harder to do so. Even the intimate relation depends on great communication skills. You've got to let him know exactly what you feel even when the chemistry between you is at its highest level. Tell him you'd like to discover together all the new things that you never experienced before. If you share with him in a gentle, sweet way what you need from your partner to make you happy, you'll be very pleasantly surprised by how eagerly he gets down to putting all the information to work!
