He feels that his competence is called in question. He thinks that she does not beliеve in him. And he loses interest in her. He loses his readiness to listen.
Here are some phrases that can hurt women’s feelings.
„ You should not worry so much.”
„ I did not say that.”
„ It is not a big deal,”
„ OK. I am sorry. We can forget about it now.”
„ Why do not you just do it?”
„ But we are talking now!”
„ I did not want to say that.”
„ What do you mean by that?”
„ You should not feel in this way.”
„ OK. Just forget about it.”
„ Of course, I love you, do not be ridiculous.”
„ Do you tell me what is going on?”
„ That, what we have to do is.....”
All of this sentences or belittle, or suggest a decision to upturn the negative emotions into positive.
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